I guess the first step would be to get both ports enabled, because a port isn't enabled unless a monitor is connected to it. Any idea how to get this done?
The article at
http://pinouts.ru/Video/VGA15_pinout.shtml mentions 3 ways of monitor detection. Would any one of them work with my VGA card? For example, according to the first method, grounding the pins 4 & 11 while 12 is disconnected would tell the card that a color monitor is connected. Would that get that port enabled? Or, will I have to use DDC1/DDC2? If it's DDC2, how do I deal with the bidirectional line?
I don't know a lot of electrical stuff, so it would be most helpful if somebody could tell me how to do it at the level of "connect pin 1 of VGA port 1 to the pin 1 of the monitor, etc.".
BTW I wouldn't mind taking a risk, especially when it comes to the VGA card, so experimental stuff are welcome (as long as I can understand what you are asking me to do

) .