well my system is core2duo instead of amd (though admittedly i would have liked to go the other way) and is only 1.8ghz, but i'll post stuff when i get home (im still at work right now).
i just have whatever the most recent drivers are for the 8 series, official and downloaded from nvidia.com rather than from the manufacturer. i dont know the number offhand. (one of my MMOs that i play has a message that my drivers are out of date whenever they are, so i update then)
http://vistafaqs.com/viewfaq.aspx?faq=88that isn't how i turned off aero, but im guessing its just as effective and quicker.
if you do go with 4gb ram, you need to run a 64bit os anyways.